On the first day of Chinese New Year I have forced his eldest son, went to talk to him about his affair and just to remind him to stop and avoid whoever trying to spoilt the family. He refuse to admit that he have did it. He continues treating his wife bad e.g scolding her, avoid her, leave her somewhere w/o worrying her condition, etc. These make us very angry and pissed him off.
One day, Friday, he did not come back for dinner again as he have told us on thrusday night. In my mind he is doing it again...the first friday meeting clients, second friday meeting visitors, third friday meeting suppliers, these really pissed me off and asked him a question " How about next friday? Not coming back for dinner again?" He really said yeah next friday also not coming back and GOTCHA!!!...he is trapped with my question. When his wife question him" Ah this week you already know next week not coming back for dinner?" then only he realised I'm trying to trap him. Then only he said oh next friday no...no...
Today is Friday, when I know he is not coming back for dinner today I'm kinda angry already...whatever we said he just ignore and continue his sin...That morning he left his wife at home, when I saw her I was surprised and asked her why she didn't go work today. She said his husband will be having breakfast with client AGAIN!! he asked her to stay at home. She look so sad....I tried to listen to her...she tell me everything...and she drop her tears...finally....finally she have let go all her words from her heart which she kept all this while....she is so sad inside but outside she pretends to be a very happy mother...I promise her I will make her husband come back...and pormised her whatever happened we will be at her side...asked her not to worry...
Then he came back in the afternoon, once I saw him I can't stop myself ignoring him and showing him my angry faces. She is so scared that he will scold her again...what a woman to have such a patient...God really gave her the power...
That very night he have confessed to his wife that he is wrong. He told her everything that he have done all these while....and promise her won't do it again.
"A man should never neglect his family for business." Walt Disney
He have confessed to his wife on what he have done, because she still love him, her trust in him and her faitfullness she gave him a second chance =)
God really hears our prayer....God blessed His child, God loves their mom...I'm really happy...very happy...
Thank you God for helping us and protect this family =)
"The secret to a rich life is to have more beginnings than endings." Dave Weinbaum
"A family is a place where principles are hammered and honed on the anvil of everyday living."
Charles Swindoll
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