Friday, January 23, 2009

He did it again...and again...


Today is friday, he have gone out since after lunch not coming back for dinner again. What I saw is just a worried wife wondering what is he doing outside but still carrying a hope and trust that her husband is doing something important praying he will be ok and be back soon. 

What a wife huh? She is such a patient woman, a woman who never doubt anything and continue caryying her trust on her beloved husband without realizing what she got back is just a betrayal from the one she trusted the most.

She told us he left her at the restaurant after lunch while he drove off to somewhere she will never know where without worrying she will be alone there. Lately he always think she's a burden to him, never wish her to follow wherever he goes. Why always the good one being bullied. 


Why always the good one be the victim to suffer every pain? And the other one enjoy his sweet time with somebody who he never realised will destroy himself. Is her loyalty and faithfulness a sin? Why is it that the one she trusted the most betrayed her? Why these things happened? Aren't he realised that what he is doing will hurt the family badly? The older the man the wiser he is....why isn;t he wiser enough...

Maybe God have given her the power not to see, not to hear, not to think, not to doubt, God have given her the power to continue trust in him, God have given her the highest level of patient so that he will realise himself that he have done something wrong one day. 

Is ignorance an answer to all these matter? Where is her  dignity as a woman and a mom? Maybe these is the best solution:- to be silent, to be patient, acting don't know anything......if i'm her I don't think I can calm down myself. I will stand for my own right. Maybe this will caused a disaster to the family...I really respect her....once I realise she is powerful woman.

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