Gift from God

God gave us life so we can live it to the fullest. God create mom & dad and that's why we are here, God let us choose our husband because He wish us to be happy with the one we have chosen, God gave us our children for us to love and care and feel how difficult mom & dad raise us up.

I have a sister, she is not quite happy with her current married life. She refuse to stay and wish to divorce. She has a son with this guy. Her son's name is Clovis Phang. Clovis is a very cute boy. He is just 5 months old now. My sister husband is a prawn pond owner. He run the business for his father. This business is not easy. Every pond there's an oxigen generator, if happened there are no electricity all the prawn will die because of no oxigen. He often come back with bad mood and always hang around with friends and drnik beer. He is a smoker and drinker and also always speak rude words. Previously when we knew him, he wasn't like that.....he promised my sister he will stop smoking once they got married. Haha...guys is this what you always do to girls? Guys out there who are not you all should teach him a lesson...if can't fulfill whatever you said please just keep quiet...never trust people from just looking at his face. I've learnt the lesson.

My sister decided to divorce...but how about Clovis? He is still so young....not even know how to walk yet..once she decided she want to move out immediately. As what my mom said if my sister don't move out immediately she wouldn't get her belonging after divorce. Bull shit! Mom sorry to say this...don't ever teach your wrong to your daugther this is totally wrong!! Yeah mom seperated with pa 5 years ago. Not officially but seperated for 2 years will consider divorce automatically. We as their children went thru hard life. but my mom as well......i knew her difficulties...she has struggle till the day she ran off freely....

Why things like that happened? My mom she is forgiven...older people their thinking are much more different from us the younger generation. But my sister wanna follow the same step. This is ridiculous....my parents always got her call middle of the night and she will tell them she is suffering and really wish to leave.

God didn't ask us to divorce after married. God ask us to love one another. God give us wife and we must be loyal to her, God give us husband and we must respect him. God give us chance to change from bad to good and there's always a hope....God give us brain so that we can think properly before we do anything and we won't do wrong.

My father is 58 years old now, he hardly sleep tight at night. He often sleep early and woke up at 2am and then he can't sleep anymore. My mom have the same problem too....
Why can't they rest and enjoy their life but worrying of a daugther who is now already 33 years old? I'm kinda pissed off, i'm bored with all the dramas....

I hope they both can have an adult brain and think of the solution. In this case no one is totally right and no one is totally wrong...they both should wake up and realise own weakness before asking each other to change. Wake up!!