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Singapore Night Safari

2011-12-06T07:32:00.022+08:00

We arrived at Singapore on the Wednesday, 30th Nov 2011 and it's already 3pm. We decided to rest in the hotel and visit Night Safari later at night. This is our first time visit to the Night Safari and it left us a very good impression and memory. Good service they have there. Good job to all the polite Night Safari-ans who guided us throughout the visit.

Thanks to the rain in the afternoon, We got to enjoy cooling night breeze. We watched all the show of that night, then we went for the tram ride and strolled in the park before heading back home. I didn't manage to capture any photos of animals as we are not allowed to use flash phototgraphy during the visit.

We had our dinner at the Night Safari's Bongo Restaurant.

After dinner, we proceed our journey to the first show of the night - FIRE SHOW

Weekend trip to Genting Highland

2011-08-15T10:34:00.008+08:00

Selangor Royal Gallery

2011-08-03T23:43:00.024+08:00

Its been 6 years I lived in Klang, I have been driving pass this building almost every week but I don't even know what the building known as. Until today, finally I have stepped in and just realized it is so well maintain and it has a very historical structure. This is the "Selangor Royal Gallery, Malaysia" which is located nearby "Little India" in the centre of Klang city.

On that cooling morning, we were enjoying ourselves strolled in the park before entering the building. Everything were so mesmerizing.....below are the few photos I have snapped and would like to share with you. Feel free to visit and I am sure it can be a very educational trip for you and your family.

We are Malaysian, we must know our history.

I chose "This" instead of the famous movie AVATAR

2010-03-14T02:14:00.006+08:00

Last night I was well enough, as in I eat and I didn't throw out and my tummy is ok so I don't need to lay down all the time to keep myself comfortable from the nausea I had lately. So I took this opportunity to stay up late today to watch the popular movie AVATAR..Why the director of Avatar didn't win the Oscar. Why people care that he didn't win..he must have directed a very good movie. Wow this should be a good movie to watch (Yeah I realised I'm abit outdated)I don't want to miss it so I grabbed the movie "AVATAR" from my bro in law, and at the same time I saw this movie "My Sister's Keeper" in his movie folder. Well the title doesn't really attracted me that much (coz I heard nobody talk about it?) Hrm...somehow something telling me I need to watch this movie.

I copied both movies to my desktop and returned the hard disk to him. Here I come back to my room and its time for movie girl..hrm Avatar is a good movie should I keep it for the last...hrm yeah always keep the best for the last huh? Yes..let's watch "My Sister's Keeper" first.

MY SISTER'S KEEPER

From the start I keep hearing Anna's voice as if she is complaining about her rights, she who was born with the purpose to save her sister, Kate who is suffering from Leukemia. Anna was created genetically to suits her sister needs from blood to organs in her body. Since she was a newborn doctors started to take her blood and it continues erm I think until her sister is well from Leukemia...but when I continue to watch this movie I found out the story isn't the way you sees it....

Hrm this questions actually pops up in my mind while I'm watching..what if I'm one of them? What would you do if you are one of them? If u were Anna, what would you do? If you were Brian will you agree with the doctor? If you were Sara do you think it's wrong to bring Anna to this world and let her do all just to save Kate? Is Sara wrong to try her best to keep Kate's alive and fight everything for her?

I would have regret if I never watch this movie My Sister's Keeper. From this movie I learnt but from AVATAR I was just entertained. My Sister's Keeper gave me a lifetime values and taught me how to live my life....for me My Sister's Keeper is a good movie. Hrm I guess My Sister's Keeper save more lives than AVATAR huh? Avatar kills some watchers...whoops..sorry Avatar lovers.. And in my heart the story teller of My Sister's Keeper is the Oscar winner :)

Jodi Picoult Thanks so much for writing such a good story and share it with us and the whole world. God bless you...

This movie does not win the Oscar but you will never realized such movie have saved many lives and how many people lives it changed...Maybe if you have the time to watch this it might changed your life too? Its a good movie...

Have you heard the story of this 25 year old man?

2010-03-03T15:30:00.000+08:00

Dear All,

Pls read on.

One old man was sitting with his 25 years old son in the train. Train is about to leave the station. All the passengers are settling down into their seats. As the train started the young man was filled with alot of joy and curiosity. He was sitting on the window side. He went out one hand and feeling the passing air. He shouted, "Papa see all the trees are going behind". Old man smile and admired his son's feelings. Beside the young man one couple was sitting and listing all the conversation between father and son. They were little awkward with the attitude of the 25 years old man behaving like a small child.

Suddenly the young man again shouted, "Papa see the pond and animals. Clouds are moving with the train". Couple was watching the young man in embarrassingly. Now its start raining and some of water drops touches the young man's hand. He is filled with joy and he closed his eyes. He shouted again," Papa it's raining, water is touching me, see papa". Couple couldn't help themselves and ask the old man. Why don't you visit the Doctor and get your son treated. Old man said," *Yes, We were from the hospital. Today my son got his eyes for the first time in his life".*

Moral of the story is;*

**We must not come to any conclusion until we know all** the** facts"*

learn from the past, live in the present and work for the future.

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Latest few favourite shots

2010-02-15T21:23:00.004+08:00

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

2010-02-05T13:37:00.000+08:00

This is a very good article. Those who are still single may learn something from here...
Those who are already married may take it as a guideline to improve your marriage & relationship ...

DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?

During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said, 'How do I know if I married the right person?'
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, 'It depends. Is that your husband?'
In all seriousness, she answered 'How do you know?'

Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind.

Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse / partner . You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies (unconventional behavior/habit).

Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called 'falling' in love... Because it's happening TO YOU .

People in love sometimes say, 'I was swept of my feet.' Think about the imagery of that __expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU .

Falling in love is easy . It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria (excitement) of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship . Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies , instead of being cute, drive you nuts.

The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, 'Did I marry the right person?'
And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else.
This is when marriages breakdown . People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.

Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious.
But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances.

But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage. It lies within it.
I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else.
You could.

And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):

THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't 'find' LASTING love. You have to 'make' it day in and day out. That's why we have the __expression 'the labor of love.' Because it takes time, effort, and energy . And most importantly, it takes WISDOM . You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.

Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.

Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships.
Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger.
It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can 'make'love .

Love in marriage is indeed a 'decision'... Not just a feeling.

Remember this always :

'God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let go.'

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An article worth reading -LIFE

2010-02-02T07:29:00.000+08:00

Nice article - Anita

This is a wonderful piece by Michael Gartner, editor of newspapers large and small and president of NBC News. In 1997, he won the Pulitzer Prize for editorial writing. It is well worth reading, and a few good chuckles are guaranteed. Here goes...

My father never drove a car. Well, that's not quite right. I should say I never saw him drive a car. He quit driving in 1927, when he was 25 years old, and the last car he drove was a 1926 Whippet. "In those days," he told me when he was in his 90s, "to drive a car you had to do things with your hands, and do things with your feet, and look every which way, and I decided you could walk through life and enjoy it or drive through life and miss it."

At which point my mother, a sometimes salty Irishwoman, chimed in: "Oh, bull----!" she said. "He hit a horse."

"Well," my father said, "there was that, too."

So my brother and I grew up in a household without a car. The neighbors all had cars -- the Kollingses next door had a green 1941Dodge, the VanLaninghams across the street a gray 1936 Plymouth, the Hopsons two doors down a black 1941 Ford -- but we had none.

My father, a newspaperman in Des Moines , would take the streetcar to work and, often as not, walk the 3 miles home. If he took the streetcar home, my mother and brother and I would walk the three blocks to the streetcar stop, meet him and walk home together.

My brother, David, was born in 1935, and I was born in 1938, and sometimes, at dinner, we'd ask how come all the neighbors had cars but we had none. "No one in the family drives," my mother would explain, and that was that.

But, sometimes, my father would say, "But as soon as one of you boys turns 16, we'll get one." It was as if he wasn't sure which one of us would turn 16 first.

But, sure enough , my brother turned 16 before I did, so in 1951 my parents bought a used 1950 Chevrolet from a friend who ran the parts department at a Chevy dealership downtown.

It was a four-door, white model, stick shift, fender skirts, loaded with everything, and, since my parents didn't drive, it more or less became my brother's car.

Having a car but not being able to drive didn't bother my father, but it didn't make sense to my mother.

So in 1952, when she was 43 years old, she asked a friend to teach her to drive. She learned in a nearby cemetery, the place where I learned to drive the following year and where, a generation later, I took my two sons to practice driving. The cemetery probably was my father's idea. "Who can your mother hurt in the cemetery?" I remember him saying more than once.

For the next 45 years or so, until she was 90, my mother was the driver in the family. Neither she nor my father had any sense of direction, but he loaded up on maps -- though they seldom left the city limits -- and appointed himself navigator. It seemed to work.

Still, they both continued to walk a lot. My mother was a devout Catholic, and my father an equally devout agnostic, an arrangement that didn't seem to bother either of them through their 75 years of marriage.

(Yes, 75 years, and they were deeply in love the entire time.)

He retired when he was 70, and nearly every morning for the next 20 years or so, he would walk with her the mile to St. Augustin's Church. She would walk down and sit in the front pew, and he would wait in the back until he saw which of the parish's two priests was on duty that morning. If it was the pastor, my father then would go out and take a 2-mile walk, meeting my mother at the end of the service and walking her home.

If it was the assistant pastor, he'd take just a 1-mile walk and then head back to the church. He called the priests "Father Fast" and "Father Slow."

After he retired, my father almost always accompanied my mother whenever she drove anywhere, even if he had no reason to go along. If she were going to the beauty parlor, he'd sit in the car and read, or go take a stroll or, if it was summer, have her keep the engine running so he could listen to the Cubs game on the radio. In the evening, then, when I'd stop by, he'd explain: "The Cubs lost again. The millionaire on second base made a bad throw to the millionaire on first base, so the multimillionaire on third base scored."

If she were going to the grocery store, he would go along to carry the bags out -- and to make sure she loaded up on ice cream. As I said, he was always the navigator, and once, when he was 95 and she was 88 and still driving, he said to me, "Do you want to know the secret of a long life?"

"I guess so," I said, knowing it probably would be something bizarre.

"No left turns," he said.

"What?" I asked.

"No left turns," he repeated. "Several years ago, your mother and I read an article that said most accidents that old people are in happen when they turn left in front of oncoming traffic.

As you get older, your eyesight worsens, and you can lose your depth perception, it said. So your mother and I decided never again to make a left turn."

"What?" I said again.

"No left turns," he said. "Think about it. Three rights are the same as a left, and that's a lot safer. So we always make three rights."

"You're kidding!" I said, and I turned to my mother for support. "No," she said, "your father is right. We make three rights. It works." But then she added: "Except when your father loses count."

I was driving at the time, and I almost drove off the road as I started laughing.

"Loses count?" I asked.

"Yes," my father admitted, "that sometimes happens. But it's not a problem. You just make seven rights, and you're okay again."

I couldn't resist. "Do you ever go for 11?" I asked.

"No," he said " If we miss it at seven, we just come home and call it a bad day. Besides, nothing in life is so important it can't be put off another day or another week." My mother was never in an accident, but one evening she handed me her car keys and said she had decided to quit driving. That was in 1999, when she was 90.

She lived four more years, until 2003. My father died the next year, at 102.

They both died in the bungalow they had moved into in 1937 and bought a few years later for $3,000. (Sixty years later, my brother and I paid $8,000 to have a shower put in the tiny bathroom -- the house had never had one. My father would have died then and there if he knew the shower cost nearly three times what he paid for the house.)

He continued to walk daily -- he had me get him a treadmill when he was 101 because he was afraid he'd fall on the icy sidewalks but wanted to keep exercising -- and he was of sound mind and sound body until the moment he died.

One September afternoon in 2004, he and my son went with me when I had to give a talk in a neighboring town, and it was clear to all three of us that he was wearing out, though we had the usual wide-ranging conversation about politics and newspapers and things in the news.

A few weeks earlier, he had told my son, "You know, Mike, the first hundred years are a lot easier than the second hundred." At one point in our drive that Saturday, he said, "You know, I'm probably not going to live much longer."

"You're probably right," I said.

"Why would you say that?" He countered, somewhat irritated.

"Because you're 102 years old," I said..

"Yes," he said, "you're right." He stayed in bed all the next day.

That night, I suggested to my son and daughter that we sit up with him through the night.

He appreciated it, he said, though at one point, apparently seeing us look gloomy, he said:
"I would like to make an announcement. No one in this room is dead yet"

An hour or so later, he spoke his last words:

"I want you to know," he said, clearly and lucidly, "that I am in no pain. I am very comfortable. And I have had as happy a life as anyone on this earth could ever have."

A short time later, he died.

I miss him a lot, and I think about him a lot. I've wondered now and then how it was that my family and I were so lucky that he lived so long.

I can't figure out if it was because he walked through life, Or because he quit taking left turns. "

Life is too short to wake up with regrets.
So love the people who treat you right.
Forget about the one's who don't.
Believe everything happens for a reason.
If you get a chance,take it & if it changes your life, let it.
Nobody said life would be easy, they just promised it would most likely be worth it."

ENJOY LIFE NOW - IT HAS AN EXPIRY DATE...!

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Recipe for Ulu Yam Loh Mee

2010-01-16T20:54:00.002+08:00

Soup
Chicken/anchovies
5 cloves of smashed Garlics
(depend on ur taste I put more coz the aroma of the garlic make it taste better)
boil ur chicken bones or anchovies to get the stock for the soup.

Ingredients
Hokkien mee or yellow noodle
5 cloves of garlic chop fine
Sliced chicken fillet/pork
Prawn
Fish cakes cut sliced
Choy sam
1 egg beaten
Corn/tapioca starch
3 teaspoon of oil
Oyster sauce
Light Soy sauce
Salt
5 teaspoon of Black/thick soy sauce
(preferable Malaysia made hehe thick enough so don't nd to put too much else too sweet not nice)
Black vinegar when serving

1. Unpack your Hokkien mee or yellow noodle boil in the boiling water for 30 seconds. Then put aside to drain the water.

2. Heat up your pot, pour in oil and fried the chopped garlic till golden brown

3. Then put in the fish cakes, chicken or pork, stir fried till almost cook then put in the prawn

4. Pour in the soup you have boiled just now and wait till it boil.

5. Now put in the seasonings-oyster sauce, light soy sauce, salt and black/thick soy sauce - based on ur own preference taste.

6. Boil the soup for a while then put in the choy sam and the mee. Boil for 2-3 minutes.

7. Mix cold water with corn/tapioca starch. Depend on ur own preference you want it thick or not too thick. Loh mee suppose to be sticky. Pour in the mixture little by little into the soup and stir it. Boil for a while.

8. Then pour in the beaten egg little by little but don't stir it this time. Let it boil for 1-2 minute.

9. Then is ready to serve. Serve it with black vinegar and fried pork fat (zu Yao za). Some chilli padi in light soy sauce for dipping.

Ethan's lomo!

2010-01-08T12:16:00.000+08:00

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My father

2009-11-02T19:12:00.001+08:00

A man who work very hard to raise us up. A man who love us so much. I love you pa.

Today's lunch-fish head curry

2009-11-02T10:26:00.001+08:00

Have been few weeks staying in sitiawan. Just wanna spend some time with family. Cook some nice food for my pa. Looking at him enjoying every bit of my cooking. Thats a happiness.

Ethan cares about his fitness, how bout you?

2009-10-03T21:55:00.001+08:00

The Szesze's Garden Wedding Reception @ Rippon Lea House Museum and Historic Garden

2009-09-26T19:48:00.021+08:00

I've got Junkit's invitation on FB to his wedding reception in KL but unfortunately I can't attend coz I'll be leaving to Melbourne soon that time. But when I check my email few days later Junkit sent me another mail telling me that me and Kent are both invited to his reception in Melbourne instead. Wow...thats nice...w/o wasting anytime I reply his sms telling him we can attend. He even arrange his friend Adrianne to pick us up at our hotel, knowing we have difficulties on that. Thanks for being so thougtful. Really aprreciate that.

Junkit & Meisze's wedding was held in a very beautiful historic garden in Rippon Lea House Musuem. If not mistaken Junkit has tried to reserve this place since last year. Well they got it anyway =) They are cute and cheeky couples. They always smile...and all the time friendly. We were stunt when we reached the garden...Amazing sceneries...

They even get our name printed on our table...although we just got their invitation 2 days before the reception. Owhh....Junkit & Meisze thanks so much for inviting us...glad we're giving an opportunity to attend such a grand wedding reception at such a beautiful place.

Wish u both with happy journey ahead...and of coz when alot of szeszes coming do share the good news...Wish u both happiness forever..

Bridal's car

This is garden where their wedding is held.

Everyone were waiting for the beautiful bride and the charming groom.

Oh this is not the groom. This is Kent my husband.

He was enjoying his glass of wine while waiting for the luncheon to begin.

He was posing for me.

I like the windmill. So I took this.

The beautiful garden again.

The luncheon hall.

Here they come..

Meisze and her daddy

Beautiful Meisze...Junkit's szesze haha...

There they go...meeting Junkit down the aisle

Both Szesze has officially become husband and wife

The Rippon Lea Museum House

Deicious cookies made by Meisze's mom for all the guest and my name printed on my table

We touch down on the 16th Sept 2009 @ Melbourne, Australia.

2009-09-26T16:31:00.019+08:00

We just touched down on the 16th Sept 09 leaving Ethan behind in M'sia. Its a hardest thing to do but we have to be here to get a long term staying place and make sure all the neccessary things are prepared in that house before Ethan is here. So at the mean time we stayed in the Backpackers Hotel which cost us AUS$55/night. Thats the best we can do..and consider the cheapest stay....we stayed there for almost 2 weeks till we get a rented property.

Is not easy tho, in Msia we choose the place we want to stay and pay to get the house we prefered but here in Melbourne the agent choose the us. We must at least have monthly salary to get the house we applied. But Msian here telling us we are lucky to get that fast. Some of them send in 30 application they only get 1 call from the agent.

When we touch down we really don't know where and how to start to search for a house. We take tram along the St kilda road hoping there will be open inspection so that we can walk in and view the house, but too bad we aren't that lucky that day. So the second thing we do is visit the real estate agents in the city to get the rental list printed out in their office. When we saw some of the property which we're interested in we will ask for the key and inspect that house. We are given only 15min to return that key. We took tram with a Melway-Melbourne Map and when we reach there its already 15min passed. Gosh not even step on the door step we got a call from agent telling us to return the key coz there are somebody else who wish to inspect the house already.

We took almost 2-3 days trying to walk as fast as we can to reach the property but still we can;t make it on time...then we decided to rent a car...AUS$65/day altho it cost quite alot but at least it will speed us up then we will save for the hotel rent and also our time walking around the town getting nothing. I rented the car for 3 days. Kent went to work as usual and I'm with the Melway driving around the city visiting agents for rental list and get the keys and YES I drove to the house and back within 15min. Thanks to the Melway and clear road sign. I got to visit 4-5 housed in a day with a car and Melway and manage to submit few application on the houses I preferred. I did the same thing for 2 days...and same goes on the 3rd day...

On the 3rd day I almost dunno which agents to visit already...Kent's bank rushing us for a permanent address...Kent's company need Kent to have a fix mobile number to print out his name card and to get a fix line here he need to have a permanent address at least else he won't get to apply ANYTHING here. While I was driving around the city on the 3rd day..I remember it was just 2pm...I'm telling myself i must try to visit more of the agents today...then I got a call.."Hey there its Kerri from Buxton. You have been approved to own the property in Brighton Road, Elwood. Are you still interested?" I was like ???? huh?? really??? Can you please repeat the address again...coz I have submitted few of them just wanted to make sure I got which one. and really God bless that's the one I preferred the most...it is spacious...Kent only need to take one tram to his working place which will save him lots of time..coz changing tram will take him quite some time to reach office on time.

Really God bless...we actually got this house on the 3rd day coz I will be returning the rental car the next day and I really don't know how to go around after that. Hehe here we go...after i found a house I take my time walking around the city and took some photos....as shown below...hehe enjoy ^-^

The Back of Chapel Backpacker Hotel

The sunlight among that bald tree with 3 aussie girl

The main transportation in Melbourne. This is the tram we took to go around the city.

Under the St Kilda bridge

The Yarra river

They have beautiful parks with beautiful trees...especially bald trees..bald tree and its shadow

The Shrine of Remembrance

Kent's office 420 St Kilda Road

As usual the graffiti. Its everywhere along the streets.

The bald trees again...I love them so much..

On my way back from the city

St Kilda bridge thats connect the city and St Kilda Rd.

The Yarra River

The Melbourne City Town Hall

The yellow taxi

The carriage that carry tourist around the city.

Tomorrow will be a better day..yes it will be!

2009-08-23T02:13:00.002+08:00

明天會更好
作詞：羅大佑/張大春/許乃勝/李壽全/邱復生/張艾嘉/詹宏志
作曲：羅大佑
編曲：陳志遠
輕輕敲醒沉睡的心靈　慢慢張開你的眼睛
看那忙碌的世界是否依然孤獨地轉個不停
春風不解風情　吹動少年的心
讓昨日臉上的淚痕　隨記憶風乾了
抬頭尋找天空的翅膀　候鳥出現牠的影跡
帶來遠處的飢荒無情的戰火依然存在的消息
玉山白雪飄零　燃燒少年的心
使真情溶化成音符　傾訴遙遠的祝福
唱出你的熱情　伸出你雙手
讓我擁抱著你的夢　讓我擁有你真心的面孔
讓我們的笑容　充滿著青春的驕傲
為明天獻出虔誠的祈禱
誰能不顧自己的家園　拋開記憶中的童年
誰能忍心看那昨日的憂愁　帶走我們的笑容
青春不解紅塵　胭脂沾染了灰
讓久違不見的淚水　滋潤了你的面容
唱出你的熱情　伸出你雙手
讓我擁抱著你的夢　讓我擁有你真心的面孔
讓我們的笑容　充滿著青春的驕傲
為明天獻出虔誠的祈禱
輕輕敲醒沉睡的心靈　慢慢張開你的眼睛
看那忙碌的世界是否依然孤獨地轉個不停
日出喚醒清晨　大地光彩重生
讓和風拂出的音響　譜成生命的樂章
唱出你的熱情　伸出你雙手
讓我擁抱著你的夢　讓我擁有你真心的面孔
讓我們的笑容　充滿著青春的驕傲
讓我們期待明天會更好

Can you see that colors of life...feel it...

2009-08-16T07:34:00.013+08:00

This lyric is so meaningful - Miley Cyrus "The Climb"

2009-08-16T04:16:00.002+08:00

Hrm...this song is really what I need in my life...really gotta listen to it to move on with my dream....my dream...gotta be strong...

The Climb lyrics
Songwriters: Alexander, J; Mabe, J;

I can almost see it
That dream I am dreaming
But there's a voice inside my head saying
"You'll never reach it"

Every step I'm taking
Every move I make feels
Lost with no direction
My faith is shaking

But I gotta keep trying
Gotta keep my head held high

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb

The struggles I'm facing
The chances I'm taking
Sometimes might knock me down
But no, I'm not breaking

I may not know it
But these are the moments that
I'm gonna remember most, yeah
Just gotta keep going

And I, I got to be strong
Just keep pushing on

'Cause there's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be a uphill battle
Sometimes I'm gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb, yeah!

There's always gonna be another mountain
I'm always gonna wanna make it move
Always gonna be an uphill battle
Somebody's gonna have to lose

Ain't about how fast I get there
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side
It's the climb, yeah!

Keep on moving, keep climbing
Keep the faith, baby
It's all about, it's all about the climb
Keep the faith, keep your faith, whoa

Cat in our garden

2009-08-14T17:48:00.004+08:00

Dedicate this to cat lovers =) they are adorable cats we adopted...haha we first met the mommy cat then later comes the kittens...the father? nah im not sure who hehe...

Sam & Lily Wedding Day 18th July 09

2009-07-22T17:24:00.009+08:00

I photograph Sam & Lily's wedding on two different day & at two different location. One at the church in Klang on the 11th July and the other one was their wedding day on the 18th July 09 from Klang to Malacca. Everything was going on so fast. Everybody were rushing and hoping they don't missed any important things and people. Anyway nothing stops this cheerful couple to enjoy their BIG day. Their smile makes me enjoy my shooting too.

Lily has a beautiful pair of eyes. Long eye lashes...

Lily almost done with her make-up.

A friend helping out to wear on her necklace. Yes she does have lots of friends coming to help her up on her big day. Lucky girl.

A portrait of the bride before the veil is put on.

Now the veil.

Her parents praying on their daugther's big day.

Sam came with this pink roses hand bouquet.

Here they go negotiating to get their best ang pao price in order to let him get over to reach the bride.

Ohhh....finally...

A hand of reunion of both parent, bride and groom. The extra hand is Dai Kam Jeh's.

Not sure about u but really hope she is not around that time. =P

Sam brought Lily out from the house and bring her home back to Malacca.

Lily got hold the hand bouquet and this flower will bring her to the next chapter of her life.

Here they go....

Sam & Lily Church Wedding - 11th July 09

2009-07-21T06:03:00.005+08:00

Kent's birthday

2009-07-02T07:08:00.007+08:00

Michael you are always the POP KING. Rest in Peace.

2009-06-27T07:25:00.012+08:00

When someone does you a big favor, don't pay it back...Pay it forward

2009-06-26T02:55:00.008+08:00

Last night when I was switching channels hoping to watch a good movie, I found this.

I browse thru the info (synopsis) it stated

"When a teacher assign his class To think of an idea to change the world, one of his students comes up with an idea which will change thousands of lives."

Not knowing what type of movie is this & its already 2am, all I hoping is that this movie don't bored me and don't waste my time watching it. Horror and inspirational movies always attract me so I assume this movie is an inspirational one so I plan to stop searching and I tell myself lets watch.

I actually can sense that this movie will make me drop my tears. I'm kinda like that feeling haha...

Can it really make me drop my tears?

Ok nevermind just watch and lets see what's the ending will be.

At first I don't really understand the meaning of

"When someone does you a big favor, don't pay it back....pay it forward"

As I watched further....I slowly understand what is his intention.

OK I will roughly draw his plan and you will see, see whether u understand his intention.

Its kinda complicated but when I got to understand his intention in my mind was like

"hey this is a very good idea tho but wait aren't we suppose to...."

ok here's his plan

Haha have you ever involved in MLM before? Network business...then you must have seen the hierachy diagram of how u can earn as a upline from your downline. No you never know how MLM works? ok you are the smart one not being conned.

Here's how it looks like

He simply means that when A did a big favor for B, B don't pay back to A but will continue do a big favor for 3 more people around B and it will continue.....and the favor is like providing a shelter for a beggar?...yeah it is....the kid actually don't change the world directly but indirectly he is changing a person's live and then it change the world.

If you wanted to know what is his plan you must watch this movie. Not helping any media company to promote anything but I think if everyone of us here practise this, this will change our lives and others. Why not try it?

You watch and you will know.

Yes this movie actually make me dropped my tears. Its a very good movie and you got to watch it and I actually learnt from it.

Its an inspiration. Very inspiring.

And you wouldn't wanna know this...now I'm watching

The Texas Chainsaw Massacre: The Beginning

Gosh this is terrifying, scary, mind disturbing...better don't watch

Ethan he has learn how to climb

2009-06-18T10:49:00.008+08:00

He play he learnt. He tripped and fall but at the end he landed on his feet and stand tall. Practice in your life. Learn from mistake never mind the fall as long as you willing to stand up again and you will success =)

Mommy glad you did it boy =)

Ethan in the garden

2009-06-17T13:57:00.008+08:00

Loreal Paris Star Search, Zouk KL 12 June 09

2009-06-13T13:39:00.010+08:00

The Stage hrm its bit way too small...anyway u guys put up a good show and good competition =)

David is preparing his camera to shoot for the night

Pauline and mommy (first time to the Club)

Not sure who is she, she look like an arabian girl. Caught my attention so took 2 shots of her

Pauline and friend posing for the product

Pauline dacing hip-hop, she look cool. Very cool!!

You guys are the best =)

Yep they are the winner. Congratulations!!

Robby, Lai & Derrick

2009-06-10T09:50:00.012+08:00

Broga hill

2009-06-08T17:57:00.005+08:00

Tanjung Harapan, Selangor

2009-05-31T00:48:00.011+08:00

Children...

2009-05-31T00:29:00.008+08:00

Asian kids...children portraits

Weekend Outing with family

2009-05-28T17:38:00.008+08:00

What u feel?

2009-05-26T02:44:00.002+08:00

Can't believe we met again

2009-05-25T20:56:00.003+08:00

Pauline and Pooi Leng

2009-05-20T19:05:00.013+08:00

Pulau Ketam

2009-05-13T23:03:00.020+08:00

Spent whole day in Pulau Ketam. Reached there at around 12pm just nice for some local seafood. And took the 4.45pm boat back home. Outdoor photo shooting is fun and in other way get to understand the culture and lifestyle of many people...will do this more often...and more of these I know I'm dang lucky!

RayBan P

2009-05-10T16:25:00.003+08:00

Credit to Robbie's RayBan P Sunglass, when Ethan put it on it looks good on him.

Ethan is learning everyday

2009-05-08T09:18:00.013+08:00

Vote for her the Loreal Paris Studio Search Finalist

2009-05-07T16:08:00.003+08:00

The girl in the below picture is my lovely sister, she is one of the finalist of Loreal Paris Studio Search. You can place a vote for her @ http://www.uth.com.my/sss/3.html

Mei Jia You!! All the best to you. I have confident on you.

Fashion On 1 - 24 April - 3 May 2009, 1 Utama

2009-05-06T15:40:00.019+08:00

It is so difficult to take these shots. I almost give up (gosh what a spirit -_-"", learnt a lesson "never give up so easily") but Kent (my hubby) persuade me to try again. I keep trying playing along with F(readings) + shutter speed (remember what Andy Lim's taught in the class)...finally I got a nice shot there's where my inspiration comes...haha got addicted then don't feel like leaving when it's over...

The models are gorgeous!! Handsome and pretty...wow...

Learn a lot from this shooting, I know it's not that good yet...I will do better ^-^

This is the magazine I took from the booth, its all about Fashion On 1

This model is my favourite one, she ia so elegant and gorgeous!! I like her style, she is so energetic and firm.

This model came from the backstage taking a rest strolling around. She walk towards me and I will regret if I don't take this close up shot of her. She look sweet.

They are so pro I just can't get my eyes off their lenses...WOW!!!

The last shot of the day and I'm very satisfied with everything. I really learnt alot.

Outdoor Potrait Photo shooting @ FRIM

2009-05-05T23:34:00.017+08:00

Thank you Pauline (my sister) for spending your time with me, although this is my first time. I shall reward you with the photos below. Hope you like it...

Model: Pauline Ek

Make-up artist: Jenlin.EK & Pauline Ek

Venue: FRIM

Weather: Sunny Bright Day

Camera: Nikon D60

Lense: AF-S DX Nikkor 16-85mm f/3.5-5.6 ED VR

Additional Tools: Nikon SB-600

What a beautiful morning of 3rd May 09

2009-05-03T07:39:00.006+08:00

What a beautiful morning of 3rd May 09 Have a wonderful day =)

A day out to Malacca...

2009-04-30T00:47:00.015+08:00

This is my favourite street in Malacca. Especially on the Saturday night.

A friend took a picture of me at the Hainanese Chicken Rice Ball Shop

Attracted to this lantern when I was having a meal there

My favourite hainanese chicken rice ball, having the rice ball is enough althought its without the steam chicken

The smooth steam chicken

The lanterns that decorates the front restaurant itch me to take a shot of it

Hokkien called this shoe as "kakk kiak" the nyonyas used to wear this. Sometimes you can see fish monger in the market wearing this too. Well I do wear this in the wet kitchen when I go back to my hometown in Sitiawan.

An old shop @ Jonker Street

The mouth watering ice kacang at the most famous stall in Jonker Street. The aroma and the natural sweetnest of the gula melaka...yummy yummy...

Oh I just love antiques...yeah those old stuff..although the color of this typewriter has fade off, I can see how firm it stood there on the table. Anyway its just for display...I don't think it is still functional..but who knows maybe it can be use

Again atrracted to rusty stuff haha...i just love their colors..

These frames have wonderful mixture of colours blend with the surrounding..will surely regret if I don't take this shot..i just love it..

Haha..this shy little boy wanted to close the cover of his stroller when I plan to take a shot of him. He look so boring playing with his fingers while his parents strolling him around listening to the tour guide.

The last shot of the day and it is very satisfying.

Its the rust we value..

2009-04-30T00:10:00.006+08:00

Just a flower...she's gorgeous!! ^-^

2009-04-29T23:13:00.003+08:00

My recent best pal...

2009-04-27T02:25:00.001+08:00

The New lexus G300

2009-04-26T02:50:00.002+08:00

My first most successful potrait photo ^-*

2009-04-26T02:19:00.002+08:00

Will try to improve it more...

My baby Ethan

2009-04-23T16:29:00.004+08:00

Wild fruits picked from nearby bushes

2009-04-23T16:18:00.003+08:00

An original handmade card with genuine handwriting

2009-04-19T16:17:00.003+08:00

Ixora - A nice name with beautiful appearance

2009-04-19T15:54:00.004+08:00

A new Discovery at my house's verandah

2009-04-18T23:55:00.005+08:00

I found this little cute bat hanging at my house's verandah.

I'm glad I've been given this opportunity to take him from near =P

This is bat's food collected from nearby bushes.

The remaining from what he have eaten.

The sky of 18th April 09

2009-04-18T23:26:00.001+08:00

Easter Celebration @ Calvary

2009-04-14T22:59:00.020+08:00

These people touches my heart...

2009-04-14T16:46:00.004+08:00

A sweet couple...

2009-04-09T14:20:00.003+08:00

My sister in law Lily Lim and her Fiance Samuel Ong has finally taken their wedding pictures. They both look genuine and sweet...I'm realy happy for them. Congratulations Lily and Sam Can't wait till your big day...

Ethan's trip to the National Zoo, Malaysia

2009-04-01T22:27:00.009+08:00

Ethan has grown up so fast, he can walk and run and chasing around...haha i'm glad

See he don't even want to be on the stroller anymore...he wanna walk like us do...

I'm wondering what is he thinking...haha got this shot but actually aiming at a flock of flamingo behind him

We just came into the zoo from the entrance..that's why he is still on the stroller but already showing a sign can't sit still anymore

Ethan with his Pa and my favourite cap

A handsome male reindeer was drinking water

We are so lucky to take this shot, this tiger is walking towards the pond to have a swim in the pond.

Lights out on http://jenscovery.blogspot.com/

2009-03-28T03:08:00.002+08:00

I've off mine. Have you?

Amanda & Hon Yuen's Wedding at The Palace of Beach and Spa Resort.

2009-03-25T02:11:00.008+08:00

This consider a door gift for us given by Amanda and Hon Yuen, appreciate their effort and I can keep it as a memory. =)

Their back stage design, simple and nice.

Their wedding dinner's menu list - They have chosen good food for us to enjoy

Their table setting, near the man made beach, very nice and unforgettable one, but I think it cost a lot too

Sunset before the dinner started, very nice view from my table so took this shot

Never know will meet up with all my ex-colleagues and we're at the same table haha we had a good laugh (from the left Hawa, Melissa, Wan Waifun, Jane & Ah Mao)

The rooms of Palace Beach and Spa Resort

The table deco

The table settings

Sceneries from higher view

Wui Hsin & Wen Hao's Wedding

2009-03-25T00:07:00.009+08:00

Wen Hao reached Wui Hsin's house at around 8am. Everything was kinda rush but everything went on smoothly and everybody were happy =)

This is Wen Hao's Honda City

She put on medicure herself, simple and nice

Here he comes to pick up his beloved wife

Ji Mui Team - Macey, Pei Lee, myself, Siew Yun, & Tracy

Our beloved Wui Hsin

Here she goes as Mrs Loh

Pauline's Fav food specially prepared by well known Chef - My MOM

2009-03-21T01:17:00.009+08:00

These dishes are Pauline's favourite specially prepared for her by our favourite chef MOM. We hang over at Mom's house and enjoy these cuisine till late and we went back with full full tummy. Yummy!!!

Our Little Girl's Birthday

2009-03-21T01:01:00.003+08:00

This is my lovely little sister (the youngest in the family) - Pauline. Knowing her fabulousness among her friends, we celebrate her birthday earlier so that she will have chance to celebrate with her friend on her birthday - 28th Mar.

Backyard Discovery - Black Wild Mushroom

2009-03-20T01:23:00.003+08:00

Daily at around 5pm - 6pm I take Ethan to the garden for a walk. Today we discovered a new thing in the backyard, which is this black mushroom. It stood tall and strong under the shade of a tall tall tree. This is my first time seeing this type of wild mushroom not sure it is poisonous or not but still we didn't touch it, we just leave as it be on the ground.

Our Trip to Fort Melawati (Fort Altingsburg) - Kuala Selangor

2009-03-19T02:23:00.003+08:00

Its been a while we never go out for a trip. Although is a short journey but we really enjoy ourselves. I'm glad to have a photo like this and I hope I can have more of these photos in the future.

This is a very interesting trip for Ethan. We try to bring Ethan around often, when he explore he will learn at the same time. Yep he learnt new things this time monkeys & cannons. He look very excited after we showed him the photo of monkeys we took.

FORT MELAWATI'S MIGHTY CANNON

2009-03-19T01:40:00.003+08:00

The Fort Melawati (Altingsburg) was built with solid stones arranged closely and almost half of Bukit Melawati was built with stone pillars and decorated with several cannons. This is one of the cannons equipped by the Dutch.

THE SILVER LEAF MONKEYS

2009-03-19T01:23:00.004+08:00

These are Silver Leaf monkeys. This is one of the monkey species that rules Fort Melawati. I wonder how they get there. Why not the normal monkey but them? Haha...by the way everybody has their own place to be so here they are...Some of the monkeys are resting up the tree. The brown small monkeys are their babies, they are brown when they are young and they will turn black when they grow up like their mama.

THE RM2/PERSON TREM

2009-03-19T01:17:00.003+08:00

This is the trem that we took to go up the hill. It was a exciting ride on the narrow hill side roads.

2009-03-17T18:44:00.001+08:00

2009-03-17T18:41:00.003+08:00

2009-03-17T18:41:00.001+08:00

Ethan is posing

2009-03-17T18:35:00.001+08:00

Ethan request for more when i just test my phone camera. Just look at him haha so cute

What's important is the ending...

2009-02-17T14:22:00.007+08:00

On the first day of Chinese New Year I have forced his eldest son, went to talk to him about his affair and just to remind him to stop and avoid whoever trying to spoilt the family. He refuse to admit that he have did it. He continues treating his wife bad e.g scolding her, avoid her, leave her somewhere w/o worrying her condition, etc. These make us very angry and pissed him off.

One day, Friday, he did not come back for dinner again as he have told us on thrusday night. In my mind he is doing it again...the first friday meeting clients, second friday meeting visitors, third friday meeting suppliers, these really pissed me off and asked him a question " How about next friday? Not coming back for dinner again?" He really said yeah next friday also not coming back and GOTCHA!!!...he is trapped with my question. When his wife question him" Ah this week you already know next week not coming back for dinner?" then only he realised I'm trying to trap him. Then only he said oh next friday no...no...

Today is Friday, when I know he is not coming back for dinner today I'm kinda angry already...whatever we said he just ignore and continue his sin...That morning he left his wife at home, when I saw her I was surprised and asked her why she didn't go work today. She said his husband will be having breakfast with client AGAIN!! he asked her to stay at home. She look so sad....I tried to listen to her...she tell me everything...and she drop her tears...finally....finally she have let go all her words from her heart which she kept all this while....she is so sad inside but outside she pretends to be a very happy mother...I promise her I will make her husband come back...and pormised her whatever happened we will be at her side...asked her not to worry...

Then he came back in the afternoon, once I saw him I can't stop myself ignoring him and showing him my angry faces. She is so scared that he will scold her again...what a woman to have such a patient...God really gave her the power...

That very night he have confessed to his wife that he is wrong. He told her everything that he have done all these while....and promise her won't do it again.

"A man should never neglect his family for business." Walt Disney

He have confessed to his wife on what he have done, because she still love him, her trust in him and her faitfullness she gave him a second chance =)

"Trust lies at the core of love; there can be no true love without trust." M.K.Soni

God really hears our prayer....God blessed His child, God loves their mom...I'm really happy...very happy...

Thank you God for helping us and protect this family =)

"The secret to a rich life is to have more beginnings than endings." Dave Weinbaum

"A family is a place where principles are hammered and honed on the anvil of everyday living."

Charles Swindoll

He did it again...and again...

2009-01-23T21:51:00.007+08:00

Today is friday, he have gone out since after lunch not coming back for dinner again. What I saw is just a worried wife wondering what is he doing outside but still carrying a hope and trust that her husband is doing something important praying he will be ok and be back soon.

What a wife huh? She is such a patient woman, a woman who never doubt anything and continue caryying her trust on her beloved husband without realizing what she got back is just a betrayal from the one she trusted the most.

She told us he left her at the restaurant after lunch while he drove off to somewhere she will never know where without worrying she will be alone there. Lately he always think she's a burden to him, never wish her to follow wherever he goes. Why always the good one being bullied.

Why always the good one be the victim to suffer every pain? And the other one enjoy his sweet time with somebody who he never realised will destroy himself. Is her loyalty and faithfulness a sin? Why is it that the one she trusted the most betrayed her? Why these things happened? Aren't he realised that what he is doing will hurt the family badly? The older the man the wiser he is....why isn;t he wiser enough...

Maybe God have given her the power not to see, not to hear, not to think, not to doubt, God have given her the power to continue trust in him, God have given her the highest level of patient so that he will realise himself that he have done something wrong one day.

Is ignorance an answer to all these matter? Where is her dignity as a woman and a mom? Maybe these is the best solution:- to be silent, to be patient, acting don't know anything......if i'm her I don't think I can calm down myself. I will stand for my own right. Maybe this will caused a disaster to the family...I really respect her....once I realise she is powerful woman.

2009-01-23T21:39:00.001+08:00

Just dyed my hair hehe

CNY coming but where is the feel...sienz...

2009-01-23T01:29:00.002+08:00

Is that what I saw is true? What should I do?

2009-01-23T01:23:00.007+08:00

I respect him as a father, as a good husband, as a good family man but I will never believe myself that I discovered he have an affair. He always talk secretly on the phone almost every evening, hiding himself somewhere no one would figure it out what he is doing but too bad he has been caught by me. Few times I tried to peep and eavesdrop from somewhere near hopefully get to listen what is the conversation about and why is that so secretive. All I hear is just whispering thru the trees plus some laughter and giggles. I know I shouldn't but.....I really don't want the same thing happened to me happen to them.

For once I have tried to ignore but seems like he is getting more brave to do it more often now. This time I'm gonna catch him myself. While he is on the phone with that "somebody" I purposely go near him, and Gotcha!!...he quickly hung up. This is too obvious that "somebody" he is talking to is undiscoverable. Lately he always dressed in a certain manner, far more different from the normal him. He dislike his wife to walk near him or sit near him when they are in public. Went outstation without on his mobile phone, going out to meet someone who he always says she is a "visitor", sometimes not coming back for dinner, and dislike his wife to ask where he goes everytime. Are these the indications of him having an affair? I really not sure...

To side her - I felt unfair for his wife who is a nice decent woman, faithful to him all the time, innocent, caring, loving, capable....what else that she has lacked off? One thing I've realised....its her dressing, her appearance...is that a very important point that she has missed out? Is that the reason he has to have an affair? This is really ridiculous to me. A husband should love his wife no matter how she become where this is one of the vows made before they became husband and wife. She did realised he always talk on the phone secretly, every night he SMS'ing by the bed when they are sleeping side by side on the bed, also realised he has been going out secretly few times and meeting up somebody somewhere...but she still herself as a nice decent woman, faithful, innocent...emotionless.

To side him - Who have a wife who never care of her appearance, never care how people think of him if he walk with her in the public, felt ashamed to walk with his own wife. A man who needs pleasure and pride. He still cares for the family, take good care of everything in the house. So it is ok.

but still.....

Seems like everybody around still dreaming and never realise such things has happened in their dreamland. What will happened in the future I really don't know. Should I do something? What should I do? Is ignorance an answer to this matter? She do not dare to find out...I think she is scared to discover...

What should I do? If I don't do anything what if things get worse and that somebody came to spoilt everything? What if I did something then things at first not that serious then become a disaster?......please advice me....I really don't wish they will go thru the path I;ve have gone thru...

A: I should just continue peep from far and ignore whatever I saw.

B: Should I bring this out to the family and discuss this issue so that they realised what is happening.

C: Should I SMS him to remind him the importance of his family and not to do anything to betray them.

D: Sit quietly and listen...watch the drama till it ends.

had a good laugh at myself muahahahahaha and let's move on

2009-01-15T14:21:00.007+08:00

Hehe...seems like my approached have been ignored not sure but well gotta move on tho =) A big luff at myself(stupidity) and move on. I guess she should be happy to have many friends around seeing her like that I'm happy too =) ok lets move on...its okay that i failed I lost my self dignity tell myself its ok =) I shall climb up again. Cant do much let time discover everything...la la la...hahaha hahaha... ^-^ ^O^

"To make mistakes is human; to stumble is commonplace; to be able to laugh at yourself is maturity."
William Arthur Ward

"You grow up on the day you have your first real laugh, at yourself."
Ethel Barrymore

A Religious Poem
Good Morning, and God Bless
by John McLeod, © 1989, from "Quiet...flows the love"

Good morning and God bless
On this most wonderful of days
God given, lit by sunlight
Shafting down in golden rays.
The heart sings out its wondrous joy
In choir with birdsong sweet,
And all one's love can employ
This beauteous day to greet.
Oh skies of azure
Blue as any skies could ever be,
How glad I am to meet this day
How well blessed to be me!

I shall live my live to be more....

The more you give,
the more you get
The more you laugh,
the less you fret
The more you do unselfishly,
The more you live abundantly
The more of everything you share,
The more you'll always have to spare
The more you love, the more you'll find
That life is good and friends are kind
For only what we give away,
Enriches us from day to day.

Not easy to be happy though -__-""

2009-01-14T23:08:00.004+08:00

I thought I can let go but I can't. Ever since I read her reply I felt sad very sad..I just cant believe we will end up like that. Are we still friend? Can I still call her up to chat like last time we did? I can but will she answer my call? I'm not sure. I dream about her almost every night. Maybe is my fault not treasuring this friendship, maybe is my fault not knowing to be a better person. I have lost my way,

I read through my quotes,

"All blame is a waste of time. No matter how much fault you find with another, and regardless of how much you blame him, it will not change you. The only thing blame does is to keep the focus off you when you are looking for external reasons to explain your unhappiness or frustration. You may succeed in making another feel guilty about something by blaming him, but you won't succeed in changing whatever it is about you that is making you unhappy."
Wayne Dyer

"When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. You look into the reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce.

Yet if we have problems with our friends or our family, we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and arguments. That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change."
Thich Nhat Hanh

I'm willing to say sorry to get back this relationship but I'm really not sure about her. I want to try so much but will I be a looser if she don't accept my apologies...well a friendship worth more than my pride I shall try...

Happy New Year =)

2009-01-01T01:07:00.001+08:00

Merry Xmas & Happy Holiday

2008-12-24T02:39:00.004+08:00

Only @ 321greetings.com

Thanks for your email =)

2008-12-12T00:29:00.001+08:00

Don't let someone become a priority
in your life...
When you are just an option for
them.....'

'Never cry for any relation in life
because for the one whom you cry does
not deserve your tears and the one who
deserves will never let you
cry.........'

'Treat everyone with politeness
even those who are rude to you,not

Because they are not nice but because
you are nice........'

'Never search your happiness
in others which will make you feel
alone, rather search it in yourself you
will feel happy even if you are left
alone.......'

'Happiness always looks small
when we hold it in our hands

But when we learn to
share it, we realize how big and
precious it is!'